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any part of this book without STYLELIFE’s permission, legal actions will be taken. All processes and
models documented are intellectual property of STYLELIFE with patents and trademarks pending.
DISCLAIMER
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authors, nor the publishers of this book takes any responsibility for the use are misuse of the information it
presents. You assume full responsibility for the consequences of your own actions.
The reader is warned that the material, models, methods and strategies in this book are very powerful
technology, to be used at the readers own risk. Be warned, therefore, that this book neither asserts the
legality of any of the methods it describes, and the authors unequivocally disclaim any responsibility for
damages resulting from the use of any technique or the consequences of implementing any contained
herein. It is only to be used in a conscientious, ethical, mutually beneficial way, and only with the fully
educated and informed consent of all parties involved. You assume full responsibility for the consequences
of your own actions. If you cannot agree to these terms, do not read and immediately destroy this book.
NEIL STRAUSS' STYLELIFE ACADEMY
is the online academy for attraction coaching and motivation that helps students
to realize love’s and life's full potential by offering personalized education, advice and training programs.
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Will this get rid of your approach anxiety overnight? Probably
not, but it might. The more important point is that we can
guarantee you that if you apply these principles every time
that you make the town you're going to be a lot more confident
when you approach women in the future -- and it's going to be
a hell of a lot easier.
Now get out there and step up to the plate.
http://www.stylelife.com/�
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SECRET # 5 -
ATTRACT WOMEN WITH
YOUR PERSONALITY
How do you attract a woman? Really attract a woman?
It's the question on every man's mind: How do you get her to
not just dig you, but find you absolutely irresistible? How
do you create a magnetic charm that she can't break away from?
Not only is it possible, it's something that you can learn
how to do. It's not a parlor trick. It's just simple techniques
that any man can master on his way to becoming the ladies'
man that lurks inside. Read on to find out how.
What Do Women Look For in a Man?
What is it that women are looking for in a man? Good looks?
They certainly help, but they're not what women are looking
for. A good job? Sure, women love men with a lot of passion
and drive, but they'll take a man who loves his low-paying
job over a man who hates his high-powered gig any day. A
cool car or other possessions? Again, they don't hurt, but at
the end of the day what do women really want in a man?
The Power of Personality
What women really want in a man is a good personality -- and
unlike men, they really mean it.
But what is it that makes a "good personality?" What does
that truly mean when you get down to it?
Sense of Humor: Women want a man who can make them laugh.
"Sense of humor" tops polls in women's magazines with good
reason. A sense of humor isn't just highly attractive in its
own right. It also helps women to relax, have fun and be
themselves, particularly in the crucial early stages of a
relationship.
Sense of Adventure: Are you providing women with opportunities
and escapades that aren't part of the mundane, same old
same old routine? Even if it's just an inventive date idea,
winning her over by bringing some adventure and spontaneity
into her life is a crucial part of having a good personality.
Sense of Empathy: When you listen to her do you listen? Really
listen? Good. But are you also showing her that you listen?
Are you linking what you say back to what she just said to
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This is success in baseball.
Remember: You miss 100 percent of the shots that you don't take.
You're never going to get anything in life if you don't go for
it. That's just how serious approach anxiety is: It's preventing
you from getting any of the things in life that you want.
Social/Approach Anxiety Is Robbing You of Life.
Think of the things that you want in life...
• You want to talk to that "perfect 10" out at the bar. Approach
anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to ask your boss for a raise or a promotion. Approach
anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to try and talk the dealer down on the cost of a new car.
Social anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to get a better table at the restaurant when you go out on
a date. Social anxiety is holding you back.
You're probably understanding the point. Whatever it is that
you want in life, there's a pretty solid chance that the fear of rejection
is the thing keeping you from getting it. This raises the obvious
question...
How Do I Rid Myself of Fear Of Rejection?
Now that we've seen the negative impact that approach anxiety
is having on your life, it's time to talk about what we can
do about it. It's actually a lot simpler than you might think:
1. Step Up to the Plate: 90 percent of life is showing up.
90 percent of getting rid of approach anxiety is stepping
up to the plate, swinging for the fences and taking your
lumps when they come. It's going to get a lot easier the
more you do it.
2. Embrace Failure: Failure, when looked at through the eyes
of a wise man, is not actually failure. It's a learning
experience. When you strike out, do what a professional
does: Take a step back for a second and try to figure out
what you did wrong. Then avoid those mistakes next time.
3. Act Confident: Fewer things are more self-perpetuating than
feigned confidence. Put simply, a man who acts confidently
today is a man who is confident tomorrow. Think of the
things that a confident man does and start doing them.
http://www.stylelife.com/�
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Sooner rather than later you're going to notice that you're
a lot more confident -- and approach anxiety is going to
melt away.
4. Commit yourself to change your life: Make a decision that
you have to follow through.
BONUS: Ready For The Field?
Take the PUA Quiz and find out if you have now the PUA skills, to say
the right things at the right time and attract a beautiful woman in a bar
or club.
http://www.stylelife.com/i/mig/index.php
http://www.stylelife.com/�
http://www.stylelife.com/i/mig/index.php�
The 7 Pickup Artist Secrets
2
Copyright © Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved. http://www.stylelife.com/
COPYRIGHT WARNING
All rights for this book, including copyright, are with STYLELIFE. It is illegal to distribute, print, copy or sell
this book in whole or in part, or to help others to the copying, distribution, or sale of this book. When you
purchased this book, you agreed to STYLELIFE terms and conditions. If you copy, print or distribute all or
any part of this book without STYLELIFE’s permission, legal actions will be taken. All processes and
models documented are intellectual property of STYLELIFE with patents and trademarks pending.
DISCLAIMER
The information in this book is for informational and entertainment purposes only. Neither Stylelife, nor the
authors, nor the publishers of this book takes any responsibility for the use are misuse of the information it
presents. You assume full responsibility for the consequences of your own actions.
The reader is warned that the material, models, methods and strategies in this book are very powerful
technology, to be used at the readers own risk. Be warned, therefore, that this book neither asserts the
legality of any of the methods it describes, and the authors unequivocally disclaim any responsibility for
damages resulting from the use of any technique or the consequences of implementing any contained
herein. It is only to be used in a conscientious, ethical, mutually beneficial way, and only with the fully
educated and informed consent of all parties involved. You assume full responsibility for the consequences
of your own actions. If you cannot agree to these terms, do not read and immediately destroy this book.
NEIL STRAUSS' STYLELIFE ACADEMY
is the online academy for attraction coaching and motivation that helps students
to realize love’s and life's full potential by offering personalized education, advice and training programs.
Copyright ©, Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved.
http://www.stylelife.com/
STYLELIFE
CONFIDENTIAL
MATERIAL
http://www.stylelife.com/�
http://www.stylelife.com/�
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Copyright © Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved. http://www.stylelife.com/
Will this get rid of your approach anxiety overnight? Probably
not, but it might. The more important point is that we can
guarantee you that if you apply these principles every time
that you make the town you're going to be a lot more confident
when you approach women in the future -- and it's going to be
a hell of a lot easier.
Now get out there and step up to the plate.
http://www.stylelife.com/�
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The 7 Pickup Artist Secrets
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Copyright © Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved. http://www.stylelife.com/
SECRET # 5 -
ATTRACT WOMEN WITH
YOUR PERSONALITY
How do you attract a woman? Really attract a woman?
It's the question on every man's mind: How do you get her to
not just dig you, but find you absolutely irresistible? How
do you create a magnetic charm that she can't break away from?
Not only is it possible, it's something that you can learn
how to do. It's not a parlor trick. It's just simple techniques
that any man can master on his way to becoming the ladies'
man that lurks inside. Read on to find out how.
What Do Women Look For in a Man?
What is it that women are looking for in a man? Good looks?
They certainly help, but they're not what women are looking
for. A good job? Sure, women love men with a lot of passion
and drive, but they'll take a man who loves his low-paying
job over a man who hates his high-powered gig any day. A
cool car or other possessions? Again, they don't hurt, but at
the end of the day what do women really want in a man?
The Power of Personality
What women really want in a man is a good personality -- and
unlike men, they really mean it.
But what is it that makes a "good personality?" What does
that truly mean when you get down to it?
Sense of Humor: Women want a man who can make them laugh.
"Sense of humor" tops polls in women's magazines with good
reason. A sense of humor isn't just highly attractive in its
own right. It also helps women to relax, have fun and be
themselves, particularly in the crucial early stages of a
relationship.
Sense of Adventure: Are you providing women with opportunities
and escapades that aren't part of the mundane, same old
same old routine? Even if it's just an inventive date idea,
winning her over by bringing some adventure and spontaneity
into her life is a crucial part of having a good personality.
Sense of Empathy: When you listen to her do you listen? Really
listen? Good. But are you also showing her that you listen?
Are you linking what you say back to what she just said to
http://www.stylelife.com/�
Page 29
The 7 Pickup Artist Secrets
29
Copyright © Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved. http://www.stylelife.com/
This is success in baseball.
Remember: You miss 100 percent of the shots that you don't take.
You're never going to get anything in life if you don't go for
it. That's just how serious approach anxiety is: It's preventing
you from getting any of the things in life that you want.
Social/Approach Anxiety Is Robbing You of Life.
Think of the things that you want in life...
• You want to talk to that "perfect 10" out at the bar. Approach
anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to ask your boss for a raise or a promotion. Approach
anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to try and talk the dealer down on the cost of a new car.
Social anxiety is holding you back.
• You want to get a better table at the restaurant when you go out on
a date. Social anxiety is holding you back.
You're probably understanding the point. Whatever it is that
you want in life, there's a pretty solid chance that the fear of rejection
is the thing keeping you from getting it. This raises the obvious
question...
How Do I Rid Myself of Fear Of Rejection?
Now that we've seen the negative impact that approach anxiety
is having on your life, it's time to talk about what we can
do about it. It's actually a lot simpler than you might think:
1. Step Up to the Plate: 90 percent of life is showing up.
90 percent of getting rid of approach anxiety is stepping
up to the plate, swinging for the fences and taking your
lumps when they come. It's going to get a lot easier the
more you do it.
2. Embrace Failure: Failure, when looked at through the eyes
of a wise man, is not actually failure. It's a learning
experience. When you strike out, do what a professional
does: Take a step back for a second and try to figure out
what you did wrong. Then avoid those mistakes next time.
3. Act Confident: Fewer things are more self-perpetuating than
feigned confidence. Put simply, a man who acts confidently
today is a man who is confident tomorrow. Think of the
things that a confident man does and start doing them.
http://www.stylelife.com/�
Page 30
The 7 Pickup Artist Secrets
30
Copyright © Stylelife Academy. All rights reserved. http://www.stylelife.com/
Sooner rather than later you're going to notice that you're
a lot more confident -- and approach anxiety is going to
melt away.
4. Commit yourself to change your life: Make a decision that
you have to follow through.
BONUS: Ready For The Field?
Take the PUA Quiz and find out if you have now the PUA skills, to say
the right things at the right time and attract a beautiful woman in a bar
or club.
http://www.stylelife.com/i/mig/index.php
http://www.stylelife.com/�
http://www.stylelife.com/i/mig/index.php�
